Referral Request Email Template
Copy. Paste. Customize. Send. Book meetings.
The Template
Subject:
Quick favor?
Variables to Customize
{{first_name}}Contact's first name (the person you're asking for a referral)
{{project_or_context}}A shared experience or context (e.g., 'the CRM implementation', 'the sales workshop', 'our conversation at SaaStr')
{{target_role}}The role you're trying to reach (e.g., 'VP of Sales', 'Head of Revenue Operations', 'CRO')
{{industry}}The industry you're targeting (e.g., 'SaaS', 'fintech', 'healthcare')
{{value_prop}}What you help with in a few words (e.g., 'reducing no-show rates', 'scaling outbound', 'optimizing their sales process')
{{your_name}}Your first name
When to Use This
Perfect For
- • Requesting referrals from happy customers
- • Asking investors or advisors for introductions
- • Following up with conference connections
- • Expanding into new verticals through warm intros
- • Partner referral programs
- • Professional network activation
Not Ideal For
- • Cold contacts you've never worked with
- • Customers who had a poor experience
- • Asking for referrals too early in the relationship
- • When you can't offer value in return
- • Contacts who've already said they don't give referrals
- • Mass blast referral requests
Variations
Variation A: The Happy Customer Ask
Variation B: The Specific Person Ask
Variation C: The Reciprocal Ask
Variation D: The Conference Follow-Up Referral
Variation E: The Ultra-Direct Ask
Pro Tips
Tip 1: Ask for referrals when the relationship is warmest - right after a successful project completion, positive feedback, or win. Strike while the iron is hot
Tip 2: Make it incredibly easy for them. Offer to write a forwardable email they can just copy-paste. Remove all friction from the referral process
Tip 3: Be specific about who you want to meet. 'VP of Sales at SaaS companies' is better than 'anyone who might be interested.' Specificity helps them scan their network
Tip 4: Don't ask for referrals in your first interaction. Build the relationship first. A good rule: wait until they've experienced value from you
Tip 5: Offer value in return - even if it's just 'I'm happy to do the same for you.' Reciprocity increases referral rates significantly
Tip 6: Follow up on referrals and report back. 'I connected with Sarah - thanks for the intro!' builds trust for future asks
A/B Testing Suggestions
Test general asks ('Do you know any VPs of Sales?') vs. specific asks ('Would you intro me to [specific person]?')
A/B test offering to write the forwardable email vs. not mentioning it
Compare subject lines: 'Quick favor?' vs. 'Referral request' vs. 'Know anyone who needs X?'
Try asking for 1-2 referrals vs. asking for 'anyone who comes to mind'
Test email referral asks vs. phone call asks vs. LinkedIn message asks
Experiment with including the forwardable email upfront vs. sending it after they say yes
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